Andy i know exactly what your going through , but eventually we will all have our own reasons to move on whether its a good one or not. Life has to move on, but as you say friendships can last a lifetime and it would be hard to find a better lot than here anywhere.Thanks everyone for all the kind comments; the people here are really very, very special.
I know I'll probably live to regret my decision but I've been around here for long enough and made so many wonderful friends along the way that no matter which Ford I drive I will always feel part of the UKC family.
And if all else fails then i will stand in the corner with you