I'm very much in the same boat. Joanne's birthday is 11 July and Cougarfest has always been held on her birthday weekend as long as I've been a member. As much as I'd love to come along one year, it will never happen with it being held when it currently is. I love my Cougar and this club, but there's no way I'd prioritise either over my wife's birthday.
That entirely depends on how you view the birthday though. It hasn't always been that weekend, it used to be end of June. It was moved to suit the masses. It fell the weekend of my birthday once which is also the wedding anniversary weekend of at least 2 club couples I can think of and yet we were all at Fest.
I guess if you treat that birthday as a closed and personal thing, that's fine. Celebrations though are usually more than welcome in an environment where there are few restrictions. Events are never going to please everyone. As the club progresses, things might need to change again. IMO the suggestion of moving it North has no real bearing on things. For the one or two extra cars that might appear, it's not really a huge gain.
It'll go one of a few ways : it could remain a small'ish, close knit gathering, it could move to somewhere like Billing again if there are more and more kids each year, it could do an about turn and become big again, who knows?
It's worth remembering that 11 cars when there was only camping to pay for is a low turnout. Can you imagine what it was like getting people to pay camping plus £30 a car plus their own expenses for a weekend?
This year there were 11 Cougars and at least 6 non Cougars. If the number of Cougars doesn't pick up, it'll soon be "AnycarplustheoddCougarfest".
Chris aka Mako was voted in for the Chris Adams Award based on his enthusiasm and dedication to the car and it's longevity. Maybe some newer guys should meet him and get infected by his passion. He has that raw passion quite a few did many years ago. As the demographic has changed, the passion needs to be reignited or just ignited in current owners.