I don't like lifting from the front of the front subframe in case the car walks, jack slips, and pounds the cup through the bottom of the radiator. Seen it happen too many times and I've seen a Rover Tomcat's upper slam panel thoroughly destroyed because of it.
But lifting on the front or rear subframes in general, then putting axle stands under the "frame rails" (in quotes because they're not really - box-section is probably the best description, thanks Dan) is my preferred method.
To put it another way... it's your car, your informed risk to take, and you should lift it however you're comfortable with. I won't criticise and as long as we're happy that it's safely supported, we're good to go.
Also, I want to see this car in Cadbury Purple Metallic. A very bold and unique choice and I think it'll suit her lines well!